Thursday, 8 December 2016

Tis the Season

So, I haven't written much lately because life has been crazy, and that means that sex and kink have taken a bit of a backseat. Henry and I haven't been going to parties, nor have we been having wild and crazy sex with anyone but each other. Not that there's anything wrong with that :) He and I actually just sat down and recommitted to our D/s relationship because we've been finding that we both miss it. It's not just play; it's part of who we are. I miss connecting on that level. A few months ago, the pendant I gave him as a sign of our D/s relationship broke. He never took it off so it took some heavy wear- we had to replace the chain twice! But this time it was unrepairable. Given our new commitment, I ordered him this for Christmas:

Can't wait to give it to him!

I've noticed (and we've discussed) that over the past year or so, Henry and I have been mostly emotionally monogamous. We have had our flings and sexual friends, separately and together, but neither of us has had any interest in dating someone else. Part of that I think is because our relationship is relatively new, part of it because things have been tumultuous, and part of it simply because we haven't met anyone we're interested in dating. Personally, I've been carrying so much baggage that I don't want to burden a new person with it. But the door is still open- we don't have a closed relationship and we'll cross that bridge when we get to it.

In the meantime, I've been indulging a crush on a friend of mine, *George, who recently popped back into my life. We met and became friends in the local BDSM community, and then he dropped off the page for a few years. We just reconnected again, and I've been enjoying the energy and interplay between us. No need for it to go anywhere specifically, but fantasies are fun!

I'm also finding that NRE isn't necessarily related to romantic relationships. I notice myself having similar responses when I make a new connection that excites me regardless of the form that connection takes. I have gotten similar effects from a new friendship as well. Brain chemicals can be good times LOL!

So, we're still here and chugging along... if you'll excuse me I'm back to daydreaming about the sexy times Henry and I had last night... and thinking about what we'll do tonight!