Friday, 28 December 2018

Holiday Parties

Well, usually everyone is all exhausted with all the running around we do during the holidays. Work parties, families, holiday get togethers... sometimes the level of social required can be overwhelming! Of course, I'm not the world's most social person myself either, so I enjoy my down time.

Henry and I did go to our favourite holiday party, though. It's a BDSM house party with just the right atmosphere and great people to have a good time. We enjoy the socializing almost as much as the play, which is saying something!

As a special treat for the holidays, the host had burlesque performers come in- it was so sexy watching attractive men putting on a fabulously erotic show for us all. One of them must have had on ten different pairs of sexy underwear! I certainly enjoyed watching him peel off each pair and every time I thought we had come to the end! I had never seen a burlesque show before and I definitely enjoyed it.

To all my readers; I hope you are having a lovely holiday season, and see you in the new year!

Friday, 14 December 2018


Not too much fun lately. Henry and I have both been sick, so lots of cuddles, not much fun time. What can you do, right? It's that time of year. But it still fills me with contentment because when I see my husband, I see the man that I am happy sharing my life with. He is the first person I want to talk to when something interesting or exciting happens, and the last person I want to say goodnight to. I feel like he loves me and appreciates me for who I am, faults and all, and that I can just be my weird self and it's all okay.

Doesn't everyone deserve a love like that? And, of course, he's great in the sack, too ;) I certainly got lucky when it comes to him. I don't know what forever will bring... I know what can happen now, all too clearly. But I was willing to roll the dice on it with him. I'm still a hopeless romantic at heart, what can I say?

A friend made a comment that left me feeling thinky, so I wanted to share that here; perhaps it will help some of you as well.

You and your partner are looking at a glass bowl containing a fish. You look at it and think "What a pretty fish!". Your partner looks at it and thinks "What a pretty bowl!". You're both looking at the same thing, but you're taking away two entirely different things. On your own, you would never likely appreciate the beauty of the bowl; you're caught up in the fish. Together, you get to enjoy each other's unique perspectives and insights; your differences can become strengths when you share your thoughts and ideas, as long as you don't get into a yelling match "No, it's a pretty FISH! Who cares about your stupid bowl!"

Henry and I are very different people, with different likes, dislikes, and interests. The thing that we share so solidly though is our desire to make things work together. To respect each other as people, to assume good intentions even when things go wrong. To leave space for us to be ourselves. At the end of the day, it doesn't matter whether you think the fish or the bowl is pretty; what matters is that you got the chance to experience it from your partner's viewpoint, that you listened to what they were saying, and validated them even if you don't agree.

Sometimes life isn't sexy, but relationship skills are important too, right? :)

Things are continuing to go well with Charles, too. The other day, we were cuddled up on the couch, and he told me that he loves me, too. Like I said about Henry, there isn't much that beats hearing that someone you love, loves you back, the very first time. Definitely a happy making moment.

The holidays are going to be pretty busy, so I'm not sure how much I'm going to get up to. I'm looking forward to a big dungeon party with Henry tomorrow night, though. After that? We'll see...

Sunday, 2 December 2018

The Two Person Threesome

Ah, birthdays in a poly vee are awesome- I get TWO romantic and sexy date days instead of one! I'm such a lucky woman, aren't I?

Henry and I shared my last slice of birthday cake (white chocolate raspberry mousse, it was absolutely delicious!) and then he told me to give him a few minutes and then come up to the bedroom.

We enjoy having sex with porn on in the background- it's nice to have the auditory stimulation. Sometimes the little bit that kicks me over the edge is listening to someone else orgasm! We have a few go-to pornos that we both enjoy- we joke they are our "friends" visiting again. Fun times :)  He had one of our favourite videos booted up and a bunch of toys laid out on the bed.

Henry gave me a sexy, lingering kiss and told me to relax and get comfortable on the bed. At times, I very much enjoy being a pillow princess! He lay down beside me and turned on the volume on the TV, and then we started kissing, and slow, sensual touches that drive me crazy with a slow burn. Soon my pussy was wet and aching and I was kissing him back passionately and rocking my hips towards him.

He slid his fingers inside me and started to stretch my wet cunt open while he played with my clit. It wasn't too long before I was squirting and moaning with pleasure. He grinned at me, and pulled out a new toy I hadn't seen before. Henry had decided to surprise me with a fucking machine! Ooh. I wasn't sure how much I'd like it, since I tend not to be a dildo kind of girl and I much prefer human beings to masturbation. But my pussy is aching to be filled and my clit is begging for attention... so I'm willing to give him a chance ;)

Ohhh. That nice thick cock started ramming in and out of my cunt while Henry was kissing me passionately and teasing my nipples. It felt just like we're having a threesome, except there aren't quite enough hands. But the sensation of being filled with a thick hard cock and being fucked just the way I want it while he overwhelms my other senses is so good... I started to get that sexy haze in my mind and I couldn't think about anything else but how good my body was feeling and how incredible it all was. There was nothing in the world but his lips and his fingers and his tongue and that big hard cock rhythmically pounding my pussy while I listened to the moans and grunts and cries of the orgy on TV.

When he started to rub my clit while sucking on one of my nipples, my body spasmed and I came so hard and it lasted so long that I thought I was going to pass out. So much amazing pleasure... one wrung out birthday girl.

I'm not sure I'd enjoy a fucking machine as a masturbatory aid, since penetration is the least important bit of sex to me, but as an adjunct to a threesome, I would highly recommend it! For all those couples out there who are considering inviting someone new into your bedroom, give this a try first- you won't regret it!