Chris finally got a break in his crazy schedule and told me he'd come up to visit. I was so excited since it had been ages, and we spent a few days building up the anticipation. He wore a chastity device so that he couldn't stroke his cock and he told me he had to take a few cold showers in the meantime! It was pretty hot. We worked out what protocol we were going to use when he was here.
He brought up a whole bag of awesome toys. Between the two of us, we had enough stuff to keep us busy for weeks! It's too bad that we didn't get to try everything but that just means we'll have to get together soon again if we can. We definitely had some fun though. I really needed to let my sadist side out. It felt so good afterwards that I didn't even need to have an orgasm.
I had him wait naked on his knees next to my couch after letting himself in, and then kiss my feet when he arrived. I had him show me all the toys he brought, and then we went upstairs and I chained him spreadeagled to my bed. Chris is very experienced at some things, but less so at others. But because we've been friends for so long, there's a lot of trust between us so we tried a few things that were new to him. I did a little electrical play with him, which he liked, and then we did some fire and spanking with fire wands. I don't think I'll ever be able to describe the erotic thrill of fireplay, or explain why I like it so much. I remember when I first heard there was something called fireplay, that I thought, what the fuck? Fire is really really dangerous! Why would anyone actually want to light someone on fire? And then I watched a fire scene and thought it was intensely erotic. Just like with any other kink activity, I think I find myself drawn to the trust and connection between the players, the vulnerability. I feed off that energy transfer; that my partner is all mine in those moments.
By then, his body was incredibly sensitive and he was moaning even when I just scraped my nails along his skin. It was a lot of fun! So I brought out the hot wax, which normally is a mild to light play, but was quite a bit more intense under the circumstances! Of course, I also took out my little creme brulee torch to melt the wax a little hotter and more quickly :) It was so much fun watching him wriggle and moan, and thank me when I hurt him. That sense of power and control is so fulfilling, that even though I love sex, I'd still say it's better than sex.
He grabbed a quick shower since he was covered with the remnants of candle wax after I scraped it off with a knife, and I went downstairs with a few toys and relaxed. He came down and asked permission to worship my feet. That is a huge fetish of mine and it was so good to have him kissing my feet and sucking my toes. Mmm... I really have missed being with someone who enjoys feet and boots as much as I do. It felt so good!
My sadist wasn't done with Chris yet, though. We had already done way more kink stuff than I normally do in one day, but it felt like we were trying to make up for that year we hadn't played! And it was awesome, so we kept going. He had these awesome little clamps called shark clamps, and I put them on his nipples and then ran clothespins all along that sensitive skin under his arms. And just to be nasty, I took some tiny little ones and put them along the shaft of his cock and then a few right on the head of his cock. He was moaning and begging and I just laughed and reminded him that was going to get me to do it more! Then he started yelling yes and asking if that would work. It was so funny :) I didn't make him suffer for too long. I asked if he wanted the pins off and he was such a good boy- answered if that would please me. I took a few off gently, but then got an evil flash in my eyes and pulled them off without releasing the jaws. He groaned and thanked me for removing them- so satisfying!
Then it was time for what we love to do together- boot worship. I attached a humbler to his balls to keep him on his knees, and sat on the couch while he knelt in front of me to lace up my boots. I brought out a pair of shiny black thigh high boots with red laces and buckles. So sexy. He pressed his nose to the leather and just breathed in that new boot smell. When he had the boots fitting my legs like a second skin, I gave him permission to worship. He licked every inch of them and pressed kissed all over the leather, and lay down with my boots on his face and sucked the 6" stiletto heel. I really enjoyed it when I told him to turn around and start humping my boots and then I started talking dirty to him, having him tell me that dogs hump boots and he was just a horny little dog fucking himself on my boot. I slid a dildo into his ass and started playing with it while I stretched out my other leg and slid it down his ass until the heel was pressing against his balls. His cock was hard and straining the whole time and it was so erotic. He begged me for permission to cum and I told him that he could if he jerked off onto my boots and cleaned up his mess. He started rubbing his cock hard and asked for permission when he was right on the edge. I told him to cum for me and he groaned and came all over my boot tops, then knelt down and licked them carefully clean.
I was feeling so good after all that play that I just wanted to relax- I wasn't really interested in anything sexual. There was enough of a high. We cuddled a little on the couch for a while and he helped me clean up the toys we used. We hadn't even come close to doing everything we wanted to do but it was still amazing. We'll have to do it again sometime soon, I hope!