Friday, 29 August 2014


Well, life has been interesting lately!

I've been chatting with a guy on OKC lately and enjoying getting to know him. I have to be honest, that's one of the big attractions of poly. I get to meet and connect with so many awesome people. Most of them wouldn't be compatible in a life partner sense, but just getting to know them and relate to them is a pleasure. I have learned so much and tried new things as a result of having new partners, and I love it.

Once again, I'm not sure about the long term feasibility of this guy, since he lives about an hour and a half away and doesn't drive, but I've made it work before. Guess we'll see :) He's also a switch which usually makes me a little more cautious, but so far he's been pretty subby around me. I'm in no rush though- it'll go where it goes.

So *Henry and his friend *Frank were going to a city near me to visit a friend, and suggested they could drop by on their way home if I was interested in hanging out. We'd been camming and texting a lot, so I figured, why not? His friend seemed pretty nice and we were all hanging out in the living room with a couple of drinks when one of them asked me a question about my electrical play gear, since they know I'm into it. I invited them upstairs to my bedroom to see my gear. After all, much easier than bringing it all down!

We ended up doing a bit of an impromptu scene, which was pretty mild. I don't really like to get too intense before I've spent time talking in detail to my partner. They were curious about various electrodes and things that I do, so we messed around a little. It was a lot of fun! Then they were curious about things in my toy box, so we had a lot of my gear around and were just talking kink and the atmosphere was starting to get very charged. I was wearing a short purple and gold dress and black sparkly panties. We were all sitting on the floor which gets uncomfortable and necessitates position changes. I made a joke that they had probably seen my panties by then, and Henry's friend remarked very quickly, "oh yes I love the black sequins". Fun :) I was enjoying the flirting and the tension.

When I pulled out the body contact probe which allows me to use my body parts to shock my partner, Frank excused himself to go to the bathroom so I decided to take the opportunity to enjoy the tension a bit more. I asked Henry if I could kiss him and he said yes. Now, if you've never experienced an electric kiss, it's a pretty awesome thing. It feels almost like being pulled together magnetically. So when people say that sparks flew on their first kiss... ours really did!

After some more conversation and just hanging out (it was actually starting to get pretty late, around one am), with the occasional look thick enough to cut the tension on the room, Henry mentioned that he was good at massage. I said that if it didn't bother Frank, I'd be interested in finding out. He didn't mind, so I took off my dress and lay down on my bed. Being kinky is awesome. I just love being open about what I want and things being relaxed. Of course, Frank perved my naked body but clearly that didn't bother me or I wouldn't have undressed in front of him, right? ;)

Henry really did have some talent in that area and I was enjoying myself. Frank asked if he could borrow a pillow and was about to lie down on the floor when I pointed out that I have a king size bed and Henry and I were only using half of it. So he lay back and was watching Henry run his hands all over my body. My pussy was dripping wet by the time he finished, and I could feel Henry's hard cock pressing against my leg. I pulled him down to kiss me and told him to take off his shirt. I loved feeling his hot skin pressing against mine while we touched and kissed. He's actually the first man I've been with to have a *real* mustache and beard. Not some little trimmed thing, but basically a ferret pasted on his face. It was kind of funny finding his mouth in there at times!

When I started to rub Henry's cock through his pants, he offered to make it easier for me and took off the rest of his clothes. I heard Frank's breathing start to catch while he watched me take Henry's cock in my mouth. Both men are so reactive! I loved watching Henry's eyes roll back in his head while he enjoyed my tongue and lips on his cock, and listening to Frank enjoy the show. When I was done teasing Henry, I told him I wanted him to lick my pussy and spread my legs. Henry is a musician and definitely knows how to use his hands! Frank was definitely showing a lot of interest when he listened to me have orgasm after orgasm. I teased him a little bit verbally but didn't go any further than that.

I was seriously considering making a move on Frank or even just inviting him to join us, but eventually I decided not to. I've been waiting quite some time to have Mark involved in my first MFM, and I have specific things that I want to happen, so while it was tempting, I decided to wait. This was the first time it really would have evolved organically and I'm sure it would have been good, but what's the rush? I'm sure I can fuck them together another time if I want to :) Also, Frank commented he was feeling a little spacey from the scene we did earlier, and I don't like to play with people who might be in an altered state of judgment unless I really know them well. While I doubt he'd regret fucking me, you never know. Besides, the tease was a LOT of fun. He commented that he was enjoying the denial aspect, which he'd only learned about five minutes before! It was really awesome letting another man play with my pussy while he watched, his erection straining in his pants, and couldn't do a thing about it. So, while I kind of had a MFM, one was purely a voyeur, so I decided to put the backslash in the post title, and only added one man to my 2014 count.

After some more satisfying orgasms, I wanted cock. I told Henry the condoms were in my nightstand and he rolled one over his cock. It felt so good when he slid into my dripping wet pussy. He enjoys missionary as much as I do (yes, that's right, readers- this kinky chick actually loves the most vanilla sex position there is!). I love being face to face with my partner- the kissing, the touching, the nibbling. It's just so awesome. We switched to a scissor type position, which I'd actually never tried before. I loved how easy it was for him to play with my clit while he fucked me though. It felt so good. We fucked for a long time- I was impressed at his stamina! My pussy was nice and achy today :)

We cuddled and kissed some more afterwards before I finally had to kick them out- it was 4am and I had to be up in three hours! It was definitely an exciting first meeting though and I'm looking forward to seeing him again soon. He's been texting me frequently, so I think he enjoyed himself as much as I did. Oh, and he left his hat here- isn't that an old trick? ;) Either way, we have plans to get together at the local munch next week. Good times!

Monday, 25 August 2014

Ups and Downs

It's been a pretty crazy weekend, in a good way! I'm feeling a little Top droppy, but I know it happens and I'll feel better tomorrow. And hey, I just remind myself it means things were that good that I have to come down from them :)

Jennifer had mentioned that she had tickets to a comedy club on Friday, and her husband and his Domme were going, and would I like to be her date for the evening? Why yes, yes I would :) Unfortunately it was going to have to be G rated since her teenage daughter was at home, but I was looking forward to seeing her anyway. She was wearing a lovely blue sundress that showed off her fantastic cleavage, and sexy platform heels. We had a nice dinner together before joining the others at the club. The show was actually pretty funny, although at one point the comedian was asking the audience questions and they included stuff like who was together. I was kind of wondering what would happen if he asked our table, since Jennifer's husband had his arm around his Domme while I was cuddled up to his wife! But, it didn't happen and probably just as well since he was looking for material to work with!

After the show, Jennifer's husband spent the night at his Domme's house while I stayed at their house. We couldn't play or fuck in case her daughter walked in on us, but it was nice to cuddle up on the couch and watch a movie. And when we woke up the next morning, we talked for hours. I really like my comfort level with her. I can't see this relationship ever going the way of a D/s connection, but I like playing with her, I like kissing her, and I like her as a person. So that's pretty awesome in and of itself. Can't wait to see her again!.

The next part of my weekend was something I'd been looking forward to for months; a high protocol female Dominant party with Chris! He and I talk at least a few times a week and we're pretty good friends. We also share so many similar kinks and desires and we have fabulous energy when we play together. We had planned out a couple of good scenes and I was really excited. Plus, this is my favourite party because I just love the atmosphere. It's so positive towards female Dominance and it just feels so right to me. Plus, where else do you get to have half naked men kneel in front of you to offer snacks and drinks, or to do whatever you need? Unfortunately we hadn't been there long before Chris developed a headache, so we decided to abort mission and just go back to his place since I was spending the night there. I was really disappointed not to get to use my electrical toys on him, but it happens and I know he felt bad about it and I didn't want to make him feel worse.

He did start to feel better after a couple of Tylenol and quiet hanging out at his house instead of the noise of the party, so we decided to do a little light play. I'm so glad we did because it was fantastic. We had talked about involving some more D/s in our play and I was looking forward to that since I enjoy that kind of connection.

He slowly put my over the knee boots on, taking care to make sure they fit me perfectly. I find this arousing on so many levels- it's not just that I have a boot fetish, it's that I know that HE also has a boot fetish so he's enjoying it as much as I am, plus the fact that he is doing his very best to do what I asked perfectly, and that feeds into my craving for power. So it's good on so many levels! When he was done, we were both in a pretty good headspace again. He sat in front of me on the floor while I was on the couch, and I teased him by rubbing my boots all over his body slowly. We just had a normal-ish conversation meanwhile but the tension was in the air and I could see his cock leaking precum like crazy. My pussy was dripping and I loved knowing how horny I was making him.

I directed the conversation in a more sexual way and we talked about scenes we enjoy and kept the verbal foreplay going. I took my panties off but kept my dress on, and told him if he did a good job licking my pussy, that I'd consider letting him lick my boots afterwards. Although he didn't have quite the intensity level that I crave, he did give me a satisfying orgasm. After that, it was time for some tease and denial :) Chris very much enjoys that sort of thing. I ran my 6" stiletto heel over his hard cock and said I wouldn't be needing that. I told him to go to my suitcase and bring back the hollow strap on. We had talked about it and I was really looking forward to trying it out! With the help of some lube, he squeezed his erection inside, and then pushed the rubber cock into my wet pussy. It felt so good... I bought the 8" version that was 5 3/4" around since I love girth and it was great. The best part was listening to him moan in frustration while he fucked me because he told me he couldn't feel a thing. I loved teasing him about how hot and wet my pussy was, and how much I was enjoying the way it felt when he slid the dildo back inside me. But all he could do was beg in frustration. It was wonderful.

After I told him to take off the dildo, he knelt in front of me and I was overcome with power and desire and lust. He had his head bowed down and that always gets me. I tangled my fist in his hair and angled his head to the side so I could bite his earlobe, hard. I loved listening to him suck in his breath. Then I kissed and bit my way down his neck before I decided it was time to drive him wild. I told him to lie down and NOT to cum without permission, and then I started to suck his cock. He was moaning and trying so hard to obey but I know I was pushing him hard until finally he stammered that he was close. I stopped right away, of course! He was so frustrated as I gently rain my fingers over his balls and towards his asshole. He loves to be pegged, but I had decided not tonight.

As much fun as we were having, it was nearly 4am so I decided it was time to wrap things up. I told him to worship my boots, and he immediately started to suck on my stiletto heel and then worked kisses all the way up my legs. It's such a turn on knowing how badly he wanted to. Then I gave him permission to cum on my boots. He stroked his cock for only a minute before he covered the shiny black leather with his cum, and then immediately bent over to clean up every drop.

It was really, really hot. So while I was disappointed that I didn't get to finish with the electricity... I definitely had a fabulous time playing with Chris and I'm looking forward to next time!

Wednesday, 13 August 2014

Cross One Off The Bucket List!

One major benefit of having a hotwifing relationship is how much better my sex life with Mark is. I mean, we did meet when I was 18 and he was 19, and neither of us had that much experience. And let's be honest, some people might be born talented, but generally practice makes perfect, right? And the more people you have sex with, the more different styles and tricks you're exposed to. I know I'm a much better sex partner than I was before we opened up, and he's learned some awesome tricks too after I described them to him. My husband is a fantastic lover and I am lucky that I can have him anytime I want :)

He's been travelling a lot this year, so we have to make hay while the sun shines! He came home on Sunday for just one night. We decided to watch a movie together, so we were all cuddled up on the couch. He couldn't keep his hands off of me, though, and I was enjoying teasing him by not letting him touch me for long before removing his hands. Then I told him about my date with Jennifer and he went wild. He grabbed the remote, pushed pause, and dove between my legs before he licked me to some satisfying orgasms. I asked him to grab one of my favourite dildos (a pink Tantus ribbed one) and he fucked me with it while he licked my clit. I was moaning and cumming so hard that I couldn't talk- it was fantastic! Mark and I have been making love for nearly fourteen years, so he knows exactly what I like.

When I didn't think I could handle any more orgasms (and those of you who know me know that's a lot!), Mark lay down the couch blanket on the floor and helped me lie down on it. He's been working out, so now he has incredible stamina for fucking and I love it. We fucked missionary (probably my favourite sex position, since I love kissing and having my neck nibbled gently), and then he turned me over onto my side, which is where his cock hits my anterior fornix. I can't normally orgasm from sex unless my partner has a cock that curves upwards, but this position can often get me off. Even when it doesn't, it feels really damn good!

When he finally pulled me tight and filled me with a hot rush of cum, I was sweaty and pretty happy. I figured we were done and I was about to get up to get cleaned up when he asked me if I'd like him to lick my pussy.

Well, hold the phone! Having a creampie licked out of my pussy has been high on my bucket list for close to two years, but this one is hard to manage since I almost never go bareback with other partners, and Mark isn't submissive. But I figured there was no rush. After all, I have lots of time to explore fantasies! I was definitely NOT going to turn Mark down when he offered, though! And it was so good. There wasn't much different sensation than from normally being licked, except that I was still feeling intense from getting fucked. It was the mental aspect, and him saying things like "Wow you are full of cum... your pussy tastes so salty... my face is all covered with cum... I licked out every last drop." I came so hard.

It was definitely way up there on my list of best sex romps ever! Cross one off the bucket list, but I still want to do it again! I just think it's awesome that I can still have some of my best sex with my husband. I love to fuck new people, but he's the one who keeps me coming back for more.

Sunday, 10 August 2014

An Electrifying Date

Well, I had a seriously awesome day. Jennifer and I have been flirting via text for days and building up the anticipation for seeing each other. When I have a person that I am planning to play with regularly, I have them fill out my version of a BDSM questionnaire. I originally started out using someone else's version, but the more I've learned in the kink community about my own likes and preferences and what I want to know about my partners, the more modifications I've made. At any rate, discussing someone's answers is erotic in itself :) What I like to do is effectively surprise my play partners, so I need to know all about their desires and limits, so that I know they will be comfortable with what I have planned. Negotiating scenes, while necessary, spoils the unpredictability so I'd rather do it all up front and just make changes as needed.

So, I'd told her to wear clothes that she didn't mind throwing out. I'm not sure if she suspected my plans, but I was very much looking forward to it! When she arrived, I kissed her intensely; I'd be planning and fantasizing about our scene for days. Her mouth tasted like oranges :) I did some prep upstairs, and then fastened my pink leather cuffs around her wrists and ankles and padlocked them shut. She lay down spreadeagled on my bed blindfolded, still dressed, while I attached the cuffs to the steel frame. I felt that familiar rush... she was entirely in my power. I could do whatever I wanted to her and she couldn't escape or stop me unless I allowed it.

She knew we were going to do her first electrical scene, but that's it. I started off slowly, and worked over her clothes. What surprises most people is that violet wand electrodes are actually more intense when used over thin clothing, because of the spark gap. But I just wanted to keep the anticipation going and have her off balance wondering when they were coming off. I love reactions :)

Finally, I got impatient to play with her fantastic breasts- she's easily a natural DD with fantastic nipples that were so inviting. So I grabbed my scissors and cut the shirt and bra off her body while she was still bound. I loved watching her shiver when I used a Y electrode over the curve of her breasts and along her throat. I left her pants on for now... more anticipation. I used a variety of different electrodes on her and watched her wiggle, not that she had much motion permitted!

I got impatient, though, and started to cut at the bottoms of her leggings and then realized how much more fun it was actually to rip them off her body. That was intense :) And I carefully cut off her panties, and then she was finally naked for me. I used a few more electrodes on her, but stayed away from her pussy for now. Then I couldn't wait to get my hands on her. I used the body contact probe and at last got my hands and tongue on her. Kissing someone when electricity is flowing through our lips is so sexy. I trailed my mouth down her neck and started to suck and nibble on her nipples while she moaned. Her pussy had started to open for me and I could see how much she was turned on, and how badly she wanted me. I used my hands to gently tease her thighs before I finally worked my way down to her pussy and started to lick her clit with my electric tongue. She started moaning and came quickly while I licked and fingered her to a few orgasms. I turned off the violet wand and turned on my Hitachi- while I'm not a fan of them, I've never met another woman who didn't love it! I slowly turned up the speed and she had an intense shuddering orgasm and squirted all over the bed. It was so hot!

Afterwards, some cuddles and relaxing in bed together before we went downstairs for a snack and curled up onto the couch to watch a movie together. It was a really, really awesome night and I'm looking forward to seeing her again! I don't think we're going to develop a D/s relationship that will work outside the bedroom, but so far I'm really enjoying the chemistry for what we have together.

Friday, 8 August 2014

Happy Endings

It's funny; it seems like a really common fantasy in the early stages of this lifestyle involve a massage with a happy ending. I've seen lots of people on message boards write about stories where their wife has gone to the spa and come back either having fucked the therapist or gotten a happy ending of some sort. I'm inclined to disbelieve most of them, simply because of the whole accepting money and having some kind of sex = prostitution thing, and I doubt many therapists would be willing to risk their license over some babe when they could hook up with her later and in private for free. But hey, truth is always stranger than fiction (look at my life!) so you never know!

I had met a guy at last month's BDSM munch who is a retired massage therapist, and he had offered for me to come by some time and he'd give me a massage. *Cecil is old enough to be my father, but he's a nice person and I enjoyed chatting with him. He told me he was always happy to spend time with his hands on a beautiful woman, which definitely gave me a nice feeling! And I do love massages, and it had been a while. So we chatted again on Wednesday and he offered for me to come by yesterday, and I decided to take him up on it.

He had a room in his house all done up like in a professional spa, with a fancy massage table and the soothing music and hot stones and everything. It was pretty cool! I didn't know where exactly things were going to go bu figured I'd stay open minded. And since I had slept funny and woke up with a sore neck, this felt SOOO good. It felt just like a regular massage at the spa while he was working the knots out of my neck and shoulders. Maybe less so as he worked down my body... you don't normally get a butt massage at the spa! But I've been to Thailand before and I'm used to "full body" massages, so it didn't make me uncomfortable. The hot stones were fantastic, too. At first they felt just a little too hot, but then they melted the tension away.

As Cecil worked down my back to my thighs, I started to pick up a bit of a vibe :) As he massaged the inside of my thighs, the back of his hand brushed against my pussy lips casually. I didn't respond because I was just enjoying being in the moment. In most of my interactions sexually I'm Dominant, and occasionally it is nice to just lean back and focus on sensation and not on thinking. I don't enjoy being submissive because I won't give up power, but this was a nice, power neutral situation where he just wanted to make me feel good, and I was going to allow that! So he continued working down my leg and left my pussy alone, which I noticed left me feeling a little disappointed. I was definitely starting to get wet for this man who is nearly thirty years older than I am. Then he went around the table and started working on my other thigh and his hand brushed against my pussy lips once more. I didn't move, but I'm sure my breathing was coming harder and he finally ran the side of his hand directly over my clit a few times... not enough to make me cum, but enough to make me want it. I could hear him panting as he told me that I had a beautiful pussy, but he was going to forget to finish the massage if he stayed there!

When he was done with my legs, he asked me to roll over onto my back and just looked at my body for a moment and told me that he was feasting his eyes. I smiled and just relaxed while he massaged my collarbone and worked his way down to my breasts, which also made me feel like he had a direct line to my pussy. Once again I found myself being a little disappointed when he went back to "regular" massage stuff, but hey, I do like a good massage and Cecil is very good with his hands!

I was feeling very relaxed and pretty sleepy when Cecil finished with my neck and face, so it was a bit of a wakeup when I felt that vibrator buzzing on my clit! I had an orgasm almost before I knew what was happening, but I definitely wasn't going to ask him to stop. Did I mention before how good he was with his hands? Well, with that little vibrator and a few silicone cocks, Cecil kept me cumming, and cumming, and cumming, until I was a sweaty mess. Then he had me sit up on the end of the table and put a wedge pillow behind me so I could sit propped up, and fucked me with the vibrator while he licked my clit. It was so good and so intense. I was pretty worn out by the time we went outside to sit on his patio and have some water!

Definitely a good way to spend an afternoon. Go figure, I had actually posted a Craigslist ad recently to get a massage and some pussy licking. I hadn't imagined things were going to play out with Cecil like they did, but that was much better than I could have expected from some random guy! So, note to self; fuck massage therapists more often, they sure as hell know what they're doing! And Cecil's already invited me to come back for another massage when I feel the need. I suspect I will!

Tuesday, 5 August 2014

On the Prowl

Well, I've been busy! Sometimes it's more fun to live life than to write about it!

Mark and I took a little junket to Vegas, which was a lot of fun. I met some other women who are in the lifestyle and we had a blast. I wish we'd had more time to hang out and swap stories!

We stayed at Trump Towers, which is just off the strip. The most fabulous part was that even though I scored the reservation for a super low rate on Priceline, they upgraded us to an enormous suite when I checked in! Guess there are perks to being a cute and sexy hotwife ;) Although honestly, if you met me in real life, you'd never know how I like to spend my time. I look just like the girl next door. So sometimes you really never know!

But I digress. I'd been chatting with some Vegas locals on Fetlife to see if I could find something (or someone!) fun to do while we were visiting. Much to my surprise, there isn't much of a BDSM scene in Las Vegas, or if there is one they don't share it with the tourists, which I suppose would make sense. I decided I wasn't interested in going to a swinger's club, but a hookup would be awesome. So I started chatting with *Ryan, who deals blackjack at Aria. He was cute and really nice, and we spent the weeks prior to the trip getting to know each other and I was looking forward to meeting him :) He was shy in person but when I leaned over and kissed him, it was really good. I knew I wanted to get to know him better.

And of course, this is where that lovely enormous suite at Trump came in! There was a huge L shaped sectional sofa in the living room, which was just perfect for me to lie back in the corner with my legs spread so he could lick me to some satisfying orgasms. I really needed that. The best part was, he was delightfully subby, so after I coated his face with my pussy juices, I just kissed him goodbye and let him leave with his erection straining against his zipper. Perhaps sometime I'll get back to Vegas to see him again!

Mark and I had a lot of fun, too. We went out for some really nice dinners together, and spent one evening downtown getting really, really drunk! That isn't something we normally do, but hey, it's Vegas and it's easy to get a cab to take us back to the hotel room for some nasty hot drunk sex. On the couch and the floor and in the shower and on the bed...

Things are progressing with Jennifer, but I suspect they won't go in the direction that I'm ideally looking for. I like her very much and I really enjoy her company. I just think we're looking for different things in the BDSM world. And that's totally okay, I'm fine with having another friend and fuck buddy and play partner, but I'm still missing being in a D/s relationship. She and I had a really nice date before I left for Vegas, though. I went to her city and we had dinner together and went to see a live theatre performance about relationships. It wasn't great, but I enjoyed the company... and the kiss we shared afterwards gave me butterflies :) We have another date planned Friday and she asked me if I would like her to stay over. Oh yes, yes I would! After all, even if this isn't going where I want it to go, there's nothing wrong with having more awesome people in my life.