Monday, 27 October 2014

Party Time!

I had the most amazing few days and I am high as a kite right now. Sometimes I feel like things can't possibly get much better. Certainly I have some wonderful people in my life who have been sharing some great moments with me. I've never really had secondary relationships with this level of communication, that meet so many of my needs. No matter what happens down the road, I feel lucky to have Jennifer and Henry in my life.

Last night was a big play party- it normally draws somewhere around 200 kinksters, and I had asked both Jennifer and Henry to go with me. They had met at a munch before and chatted, but it was still a little nervewracking for me. I've never had two partners come to a party with me before, and I wanted to make sure they would both have a good time. I had taken both of their needs into consideration and made a plan for the evening that I thought would work for everyone, but it was a new experience and I really wanted it to go well.

I got there early so I could have some time to socialize with my friends. The community is a big part of my social outlet now, since they really understand me. I mean, who else can I tell that I just picked up 25ft of copper netting and not be asked if I have a bad problem with slugs? My friends appreciate my devious ideas and my sadistic side. I love just having the freedom to be myself and say what comes to mind, and having people like me for it! It's so wonderfully accepting.

Jennifer and her husband arrived not long after. He and I have met before and he's a nice guy, just very quiet! This was his first play party, so I hoped that he was going to have a fun time watching while I played with his wife! We chatted and I introduced them around to some people. Henry showed up not long afterwards, and it was such a turn on to have him kneel at my feet to put on my high heeled stiletto sandals. I have a protocol where my subs put on my shoes for me at parties and I love it. So visually appealing, plus I have a boot and shoe fetish :)

It was so hot when he whispered in my ear that he had something for me. I waited, and he handed me a tiny silver key. He was wearing the locking stainless steel cock ring that I had left at his house last time I saw him. It was such a turn on to know that he had been wearing a reminder of me all day, and that I was holding the means of his release.

Then it was time for my scene with Jennifer! We had decided to do a wax scene, and it's always exciting to get her naked on a table in front of me, ready for my evil delights! She enjoys being watched and I made sure to point out a few of the local perverts (lord love 'em) who were sitting close by I'm sure to get a view of her fantastic breasts. I covered her with droplets of pink, purple, and white wax, until she looked like... well, a sexy woman covered in bits of dried wax :) Then it was time for some fun- I used my big scary knife that doesn't actually have an edge to scrape it off. It was fun when a few bits stuck and I had to scrape harder to get them off- as she says, although she isn't a masochist, we need that little bit of pain to bring out the sensualism in the rest of the scene.

When our scene was over, we had some cuddles and kisses and then I went to sit down and watch some other people play. I definitely needed a little break between scenes before I was ready to switch gears mentally. It felt so good to be sitting in this big armchair and having Jennifer and Henry sitting on the floor next to me and I was touching them both. A friend of mine walked by and made a joke about my harem and we all laughed. It was even better when Jennifer and Henry started making jokes themselves about me sitting in my throne and how they should carry me around in it. I just loved the openness and the happiness in having two partners there who care about me and want to be with me, and that they were getting along. It was fantastic.

After a little while, I was ready for my scene with Henry. He mentioned he was feeling sensitive tonight, so I asked a friend of mine who is skilled with rope if he could do some restraints for me. Rope isn't really in my repertoire right now, since I've been so focused on learning other things and rope has a slow learning curve and a big time investment. One day I'll get around to it! At any rate, he did a beautiful and functional tie on Henry, and told me after it was the first time he'd tied a man to a pool table! (I kinda wonder if the nightclub patrons who normally visit this venue when it isn't closed for a private party ever wonder what people have done on their pool tables!) We had a very intense scene together- he told me afterwards that at times he didn't know if he was going to laugh, cry, or scream. He did scream a few times :) We're both very much into touch... so when I had his body wired so that I could use my fingers and shock him, I started teasing him about how I couldn't understand why he didn't seem to be enjoying it this time.

When our scene was over, we went and cuddled on a couch and got our bearings back a bit. Both of us were a bit glassy eyed and feeling that heady rush of endorphins together. We headed back to my place not long afterwards and had some really connective sex. It was so good to drift off to sleep cuddled up together. Given how hard we played, we both needed it. Dommes need aftercare too sometimes :) He really enjoyed being the little spoon, too- he says guys don't get that often enough and I'm sure he's right. And I loved holding him close- it gave me all those possessive feelings.

This was actually the first time that I had a partner sleep over when Mark was home, which was interesting. He and I had discussed the possibility of a MFM, but we decided to hold off to give him more of a chance to get to know Henry. In the morning, I came upstairs first and Mark teased me that he had heard me and Henry having fun when we woke up this morning. Apparently I was loud :) But it was really good sex! The three of us had lunch together and then Henry and I went out to go for a walk and do a little shopping. You know what they say- everything you need to make me love you is available at Home Depot! We bought chain and carabiners and metal rods, and picked up a few other pervertables at Target to make the rods into fire wands. It was fun having these innocent items in our cart and knowing what they would be used for!

And it was just good to have some time for us to check in about how we're feeling about our relationship. He made a point to say that he wants something long term, and that's what I want as well. The connection and chemistry between us is so good. We talked about incorporating some more D/s into things as well, and I think that's going to bring us both a lot of satisfaction. It was hard to kiss him goodbye at the train station tonight, since we're not sure when we'll be able to see each other again. The next party is a month away and he's not sure how his work schedule will leave him fixed. Thank goodness for technology to help keep us connected in the meantime. Can't wait to have him in my arms again.

Sunday, 19 October 2014

Light My Fire

I have really been in my happy place lately, if that hasn't been totally obvious. Although I think if it's not totally obvious, you're probably blind and not actually reading here! :)

Jennifer and I hadn't seen each other in a couple of weeks, so as soon as she walked in the door we kissed passionately. I love the way her mouth tastes- she says she doesn't do anything but she always reminds me of oranges. And since I happen to love oranges, that is nice for me! We had dinner and just spent some time catching up. She and I connect really well- I could have sat there all night with her just chatting. I think that's one reason I enjoy my relationship with her so much- the sex and the kink are fun, but I really feel like she's a great friend and someone I want to spend time with. And she shows me that she wants to spend time with me, too, and that means a lot.

She had asked me if I'd do an impact scene with her. She hadn't done anything other than a rough spanking with a previous lover, and she was excited to experiment. Of course, I was happy to do some experimenting with her! I have a spanking bench setup, and I laid out my impact toys next to her so that she'd get to build up some nervousness/anticipation. It was so sexy watching her on all fours, naked, with her ass in the air and waiting for me.

First I warmed her up with my vampire gloves... those are leather gloves with little pins sticking through them. I used them to just start her feeling sensation before we got a little serious. You can't just start whaling away on someone if you actually want your partner to enjoy it! You've got to start slowly to build those endorphins, and it's a lot of fun to ramp things up so you can watch the reactions :)

I tried out a bunch of different things with her to see what she liked. We used a couple of different crops, a couple of different paddles, a suede flogger, a leather flogger, and a Betty Crocker icing spatula. You know, everyone I know owns one of those, and none of them use it for baking! She told me afterwards that she was surprised at how quickly she got aroused. It was fun to use the crop to spank her while I slid the spatula along her pussy lips. She was dripping wet. When her ass was nice and pink, I decided to give her the reward for being a very good girl for me. I slid my fingers along her pussy and started to play with her clit while I slipped a couple of fingers inside her and played with her G spot. It wasn't long before I felt her clenching around me and having a screaming orgasm. She squirted all over my bench :) It was so sexy.

I was pretty tired afterwards, so it wasn't long before we went to bed afterwards. We must both have been worn out, because we slept right through the alarm! We had been planning to get up a little early to have sex, but we just barely had time to rush through the shower and head out to a workshop that we were both looking forward to attending; fire play :)

It's funny the things you think when you're first starting out in BDSM. I couldn't really understand why people were doing some of the things they were doing. But when I watched my first fire play scene, I remember saying out loud that it was one of the most erotic things I'd ever seen. And I still can't really explain it, but I think I'm drawn to the intensity. People talk about playing with fire about it being dangerous, and it is- and here we are doing something sexy and fun with it. It's pretty hot to light someone's nipples on fire, or see a line of flame trace down a spine. And if you're doing it correctly, it doesn't even hurt... just feels warm and sensual. I really enjoyed lighting my palms on fire and then giving her a spanking :)

It really has been an awesome weekend... an awesome few months. And more fun coming soon :)

Sunday, 12 October 2014

Sunny Days

When I woke up this morning, there was a layer of frost on the ground. What happened to summer? I feel like it went by in the blink of an eye. Such a shame, because I love to spend my days in little summer dresses and high heeled sandals. I like to feel sexy and feminine. Fortunately, though, the forecast was updated to get up to 64 F, so I decided I could get away with the sandals for at least one more day, even if I paired them with jeans and a nice blouse.

I played hooky today and dropped my son off at my mother's for a visit and went to Henry's city. We haven't seen each other in two weeks and his internet connection has been messed up so we haven't been able to Skype either. Texting and phone calls are nice to reduce the distance, but nothing beats physically having a person in your arms. He had planned to come and stay for a few days next week but that fell through because of work, so it had looked like we might not see each other until the next party, which would be a month from the last one. Far too long when you're in NRE! Especially when you're as tactile as we both are.

It was just so good to see him again and to be able to reach out and touch him. I got that little rush of excitement just being able to sit with him and kiss him when I wanted to :) And I did want to- often. He's a fabulous kisser and it doesn't seem to bother him to express that in public; we've been kissing pretty passionately with people all around us. It makes me happy that he's comfortable with me like that, with being seen with me like that.

We had a really wonderful day. We went shopping at a fancy little market and bought cheeses and cold cuts and wine and a baguette and strawberries and cheesecake, and went out for a picnic on the shore of a lake. With the sun shining down on us, ducks swimming and quacking, and just hanging out together... I remember thinking that there was nowhere else I'd rather be in that moment than there with him. We got a little buzzed and the talk turned sexy, so we were both dying to get back to his place and remove excess clothing! Also, we knew we didn't have much time together because I had to be back home by early evening.

I couldn't bring any BDSM gear this time, so we had a mostly vanilla time together, but it was still wonderful. Lots of hot kisses and touches and licks before we put a condom on him and I rode his cock while he was sitting on the couch. It was so good feeling him slip deep inside my pussy and listening to the sounds he made! When I got tired of riding his cock, I lay back and told him to fuck me hard. I actually love missionary sex- so connective and intimate. And I love watching him cum and feeling his cock pulse inside me... maybe one day we'll be comfortable doing without condoms so I can feel him explode and fill me up with hot cum. I've already been fantasizing about it a little. When we were making out early on, I told him to come lie with me and kiss me, and his bare cock was nestled right up against my pussy lips. I love the way that feels and it was so tempting, but not yet. We'll see what the future holds, though.

It was so hard to pull myself out of his arms when the alarm went off, but it was time for me to get ready to go home. He asked me to stay the night and go home in the morning but I really couldn't. It would have been so good to spend the night snuggled up with him, though. Oh well- in two weeks we'll have a few nights together! I'll miss him in the meantime but it always helps to have a date to look forward to when you're in a relationship involving distance.

He kissed me goodbye so passionately on the sidewalk. It really makes me feel like he wants to be with me as much as I want to be with him. It was such an amazing day. I'm happy :) And counting the days until next time!

Wednesday, 1 October 2014

Keeping Busy!

I've really been enjoying my relationship with Jennifer lately. Dating her is like having a best friend, sex partner, and play partner all rolled into one. We really connect and enjoy each other's company, the conversations are great, and so is the fun stuff :)

Her birthday is coming up, so I wanted to take her out to celebrate. We went out to dinner and just caught up on things and enjoyed each other's company. I bought her a couple of small gifts for her birthday- a book on shibari, since that interests her, and a pink heart necklace with an infinity symbol inside. I thought it would be perfect for her since it's pretty and she'd been talking about visible symbols of polyamory lately. And it hung just right, a little bit nestled above her fabulous cleavage ;)

Then we went to the local BDSM munch and hung out with the local deviants. Oh, it's always good times! Lots of interesting conversations about terrible, awful things to do to people! :) It's just so nice to hang around with people who appreciate my perverted mind for what it is. And my photographer friend gave me the CD with the photos of my scene at the other party. They turned out so well! I'm so happy.

Right about now, I feel pretty lucky. I have a fabulous girlfriend, an awesomely intense relationship with my new boy, and my pussy is deliciously achy from two rounds of great sex with Mark today. Does it get much better than this?