I had one special moment recently that I'll share. Henry and I finally sat down and talked about things and formally negotiated a D/s contract. Our relationship has always been rooted in BDSM and I have been the Domme, but we hadn't formalized what areas I have authority over and he hadn't formally submitted to me. We had agreed that the collar I gave him before was a training collar, and now, it's something more. He's mine, and I couldn't be happier with that.