We also got into the fantasy talk a little bit. He's really started to enjoy a little kink in our sex life. He's not into the power exchange which I really crave... but I can certainly enjoy what I've got! And he's actually meeting some of my needs for service submission, which is awesome (don't tell him I said that, he thinks of it as trying to make me happy and my life easier... so the exact same thing. But he'd hate the name!). I wake up and all the chores are done. So happy!
But I got off topic again! He's been asking me to do some dirty things to him and I love it. He begged me to slap his face, which was really, really hot. Afterwards, though, he said he thinks that was a one time thing LOL! Apparently I have quite the arm. He's also told me he'd love to do some bondage and watersports again, and I find that a real turn on. Playing with my husband can be a lot of fun even if it's missing the submission. What I have is pretty good!
Opening our marriage has really been awesome for our sex life. Not only do we have sex much more frequently, but we're both better sex partners now. I've learned some new tricks, and I've had some used on me that I could teach him. We're both more open minded and willing to explore each other's fantasies. It's been a really, really positive thing for our relationship. That doesn't even mention the better trust and communication we've had to develop to make things work.
So my New Year's resolution for this year... Have sex. Lots of it. With lots of different people, but especially my husband, because I love him so much. And I do love fucking him!