I have gotten out to a few BDSM events though, and that's been a lot of fun. I have really missed going to munches and play parties! The interesting thing is, while I haven't had any luck finding a submissive man that I'd enjoy for more than a casual scene, I do have a lot of interest from the ladies! I wonder if it's pheremones? :) All I know is, being interested in women has become much more exciting lately.
On Sunday I went to a Valentine's Day play party. I wore a red PVC and black lace dress, fishnet stockings, and thigh high black leather stiletto boots. Definitely dressed to kill! It seemed to work very nicely too, when I flirted with an attractive woman and it turned out she was also interested in flirting. We had our hands on each other for most of the night when I wasn't doing a scene. It was a lot of fun!
I got to co-Top a very hot (pun intended) scene with another sexy lady, and we had a great time. We did some fire cupping, and it was a lot of fun! I never realized how erotic fire play could be until I watched a scene for the first time and couldn't take my eyes away. Edge play feels like the ultimate in control and Dominance to me, since you have to be careful not to seriously injure the bottom. But at the same time... doing something risky like that is the ultimate aphrodisiac. I've been studying from some more experienced Doms so that I can play safely. No hurting the submissive... unintentionally ;)
I've also purchased some new gear that I'm looking forward to trying out! If the mailman had only known what was inside the big box he delivered. My favourite thing so far is the Realdoe. If I had a cock of my own, I'd be playing with it all the time! As soon as I got it, the egg end went straight into my pussy and I spent the evening walking around fondling my cock. I can't wait to use it on someone!
Sigh. Good times ahead, I'm sure!