Public D/s

I got a sad email this morning. Adam, one of my first sex partners in the lifestyle, just broke up with his wife. Poor guy. We've been seeing each other off and on for over two years now, and while I enjoy his company, there's no emotional attachment there. More like casual acquaintances who like each other and fuck sometimes. I feel badly for him, though, because there's kids involved and breakups are always tough. On the other hand, he and his wife were both cheating on each other so it was a bit of a trainwreck, but that's really none of my business. He asked me if we can get together in a few weeks and I said sure. He's a good fuck and it's nice to see him once in a while.

I had a fun night out yesterday, though! I really love the little aspects of D/s. The things you can do in public that no one else would recognize but has significance to the two of you. I told John what time to meet me and where, and he was walking up right as I arrived. And he was so excited to see me! It was really adorable and flattering, actually. It had only been a week since we'd seen each other last but he told me it felt like forever. I laughed and reminded him I was used to dating long distance where I'd have no chance at seeing anyone more often than that!

He carried my things for me while we walked to the restaurant I wanted to go to for dinner. No one would have known anything was different about us except that he was carrying our bags and that I'd chosen what we were eating with no input from him. But I felt it, and I liked it :) We had a nice dinner and I asked him at one point to refill my drink. He returned with it and stood beside our table with the drink in his two hands waiting for me to take it. I was impressed. Such a good boy!

We joined up with some kinky friends afterwards for drinks and just hanging out. It was so nice to be out as a couple, even if a relatively new one, and just socialize. He was very attentive to me but not in a way that was pushy or overbearing. Just right. We had a great time before heading back to his house for hot tubbing and some more private time.

NRE is sweet.