Sunday, 17 March 2013

I love days like this...

I'm still trying to figure out where I am going with this blog. Do I just keep writing about my dates and titillating my readers (hopefully)? I'm undecided yet how personal I will let it go with my thoughts and feelings. I'm thinking that I might slow down with the ultra casual sex and meeting new guys. I started going through my cell contacts and seeing how many men there I had fucked at least once and was still at least tentatively seeing and that got a little overwhelming! While it's fun to be a little slutty, I don't think it's really who I am. I joked with my husband that I've been averaging one new guy a week but I don't think I'm going to keep it up. I like to have a connection with the men I have sex with and it's just not the same otherwise. Sex is fun, but sex with someone you genuinely like and enjoy spending time with is much better. I'm sure that won't stop me from being tempted once in a while, though! :)

I've been busy lately and haven't had a lot of time to write, but I've still been getting into trouble! I haven't done it for a while, but I always thought it was a real turn on to fuck two different men in one day, neither of whom are my husband. One day I'll manage to get three and fuck him too, but he hasn't been home the days where I had the opportunity. Oh well- something else for my bucket list!

So on Thursday last week, I had two dates planned- one with Andrew in the evening, and one with *Jason in the morning. I'm really starting to enjoy Andrew- he's a genuinely good guy and he's fun to experiment with. I enjoy his company and just hanging out with him. So he came over in the evening and we watched a movie, which was interrupted by a loud and wet round of sex partway through :) We tried a few new things from my toy box and really enjoyed each other. I think I'm corrupting him ;)

I had met Jason for lunch the week before. He's in an open marriage as well and I'm his first experience dating since he got married. He seemed to be much more shy in person than he did online which surprised me a little, but it was refreshing. We had a nice lunch date so I was interested in seeing him again. This time he brought over a pizza from my favourite local pizza place and we just hung out for a while at my house. It was interesting just enjoying the sexual tension... I could tell so many times that he wanted to kiss me or touch me but wasn't sure that it was okay, so I had fun flirting and teasing.

What was really nice was by the time we got to bed, we still took it slowly. I haven't been with a man for a while that was content just kissing me and caressing me in a mostly nonsexual manner. I like sex as much as the next person (okay, way more than the next person!) but it was really nice to take our time and just enjoy each other's bodies. I'm looking forward to seeing where this goes.

I'm really enjoying having two local guys that are giving me the attention I want (both text daily) and available on a fairly regular basis. It's a refreshing change from the guys who flake or aren't who they say they are. Perhaps I just got lucky? Either way, I think I'll keep these ones for a while :)


  1. I think a lot of us would be more shy in person than over the Internet. The web makes us all braver.

    As for the blog? Only write what you want to write, and DON"T change your real life behavior just so you have something to write about. That is a dangerous game.

  2. Great advise from Advizor. We've all seen blogger who become concerned with turning episodes in life into blog posts, enough that it becomes a burden.

    Post what strikes your fancy and your readers will surprise you.

  3. Oh, I'd never have sex with someone just to tell you guys about it! I have sex because I like it. I guess this was just my slutty phase. I tried it, and it's not really my thing. But, now I know, right?

  4. You should give it a couple more go's, just in case you change your mind.