Friday, 10 August 2018

Ask A Hotwife Anything!

All right everyone, so I suspect I lost a lot of readership over the past two years when I haven't been posting much. I can't say I blame y'all for not being around when there hasn't been anything to read!

But I'd like to rebuild my blog following, because it's fun to know that people are following my stories.

So... Give me a little love. For the next week, anyone can ask me a question in the comments. Please nothing that would violate my privacy, but otherwise I will answer ANYTHING you ask me, honestly, to the best of my ability.

Please give me a signal boost and spread this post around- the more comments, the more you'll know about me ;)  Anyone who posts a link to this post and shows me, gets an extra question!

16 comments:

  1. What province of Canada do you live in and are you open to meeting readers who may travel on business to your area?

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    1. That's skirting the privacy caveat, but I'll answer this one. I live in Ontario, and I would consider meeting readers if there was a connection.

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    2. Fair enough. :)

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  2. Since becoming a hotwife do you ever miss just having a traditional 1 on 1 Hallmark type relationship . In other words once you cross the line do you think theres ever going back ?

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    1. Hey unknown 3:50!
      Honestly, no, I don't ever miss that, because I haven't lost a traditional Hallmark relationship. I feel that by being open we have gained so much more even just between the two of us. We have hotter sex, we have better communication, trust, and respect.
      My husband and I love each other very much. Loving or fucking other people does not have to take away from our connection. We make lots of time for each other, whether it's just cuddling, chatting, hanging out, or enjoying some BDSM play or making love.

      Some people choose to go back. Honestly, I would not. But I will be up front that I have an extremely high sex drive and I love variety. I see no reason to go back because both me and my husband are happy with our decision to have a nonmonogamous lifestyle.
      I have lots of friends I love. Everyone has many intimate connections in their lives, even if they're platonic. We don't say that our intimacy with friends takes away from our marriages, do we? It's just that humans are wired for competition so we see this differently. It doesn't have to be. Sex or love with a new partner doesn't have to be a zero sum arrangement.

      Just make sure that you TALK with your partner about needs and wants and expectations. Keep communicating and maintain that connection between the two of you!

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  3. How about a picture of yourself, obviously face covered to protect the innocent? :)

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    1. I didn't see where you shared my post to get a second question? But I'm sorry, no pics! I don't do that anymore after I had an issue with a person who doesn't respect boundaries.

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    2. Not a blogger, just a reader. Sorry.

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  4. I just want to know how life has been treating you and just want to welcome you back. You girls from Canada are some of the sexiest girls I have ever had the pleasure of meeting. Welcome back!

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    1. Aww, thanks :)
      Honestly, I'm ready to have my life back. We've been so busy the past year or so, and then there's been health stuff. So now that things are slowing down, I am hoping they will heat back up for me!

      *kisses*

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  5. Do you think Justin Trudeau is a massive faggot?

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    1. Quite a bit of a hike... I think around five hours or so?

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  7. My wife & I are only a few months from her first meet with a guy she's become good friends with while conversing over Kik, they've sexted one another regularly and talked intimately over the phone recently, they get on great and have fun together,I'm happy she's enjoying herself and want her first ever Hotwife experience to be as good as it can be. Do you have any advice as to what I can do as a husband to put both of them at ease as the guys nervous about under performing with her and my wife's never had sex with anyone but me.

    Kind regards Jay

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    1. Hi Jay! Hope I can help a little bit.

      Are you planning on being present and/or participating in some way, or is she flying solo? My advice would be different in the two situations.

      It's fantastic that you want to make her first experience great! How are you feeling about everything? You can likely expect some degree of angst at some point; if it happens before she goes, do your utmost to keep a rein on it. It WILL pass, and pulling her back and forth is about the worst thing you can do.

      Henry suggests having dinner as a threesome, so everyone can relax and get to know each other a bit, and if she's going solo then you can absent yourself which will give them that solid cue that it's OK to get busy. Often things can be a bit awkward the first time especially if she hasn't been with anyone else before.

      Everyone is nervous the first time! I still get nervous with a new person, because learning what they like and how to please them is always different! Hopefully they both know that sex tends to get better over time as you learn each other's bodies and not to have sky high expectations. Regardless of what happens, sex with a new person is generally HOT!

      Try and stay out of their way as much as possible, if you're planning on being there. He may have concerns about performing in front of another man, and she might feel awkward, too. Honestly, if you can handle it, I'd back off as much as possible and just enjoy letting her tell you about it afterwards. That way they can relax and find their groove a bit and maybe the next time wouldn't be as awkward if you want to watch.

      Have you discussed what she wants to get out of it and what you want to get out of the experience? If you have any boundaries, is everyone aware of them?

      I hope you and your wife have an exciting new experience and it kicks your libidos sky high! Please feel free to come back and let me know how it went, or comment further if I can give any more advice!

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